Nancy, loss is such a difficult emotion to soothe and understand. I know that sharing events and stories with others that knew Lief can sometimes bring joy and laughter to recall the good times and experiences that were shared with her. At the same time, accepting the true loss of one from this earth takes time. Please know that if there's anything I can do, just call and I will be there to assist in anyway I can.
When the girls lost their grandparents on their dad's side of the family there were no plans or personal requests for the funerals, memorials or personal services. The family struggled with decisions and other arrangements that were not planned which added to the already emotional time. There was a simple will and two burial plots that had been purchased in the 1930's by their grandfather, but that was it. This leads me to say that I have been struggling with my personal desires and wishes. Trying to accept the second half of life and living it. It would be another topic/topics to discuss with the Network. It would be helpful to understand more about estate and trust planning versus a will. The advantages and tax benefits for heirs that makes it clean and simple in dividing assets. To be more understanding of how I can celebrate the best I can, not knowing when I will leave this earth. Having my wish list and business affairs in order, so I can worry a little less about the things I have yet to commit to paper.
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Thank you Maureen for that suggestion and for your support. That would be a great idea for the Network to explore at a workshop or event. While estate planning is very important so is the planning that needs to be addressed to help family members make immediate decisions to celebrate and acknowledge one's life and death. Let's talk more about it and put together some ideas. I hope that we will hear from others who might have input and comments about what would be helpful. Nancy
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